• emeralddawn45@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Biting makes kissing more interesting, I’ll stand by that point. And I’m not an american’t. There needs to be a tiny of bit of pain, or pressure, or conflict to keep a relationship fresh imo. If you’re making out it should be 90% dancing tongues, 10% aggression. That’s my personal formula that I think keeps it fresh. Translates pretty well to sex too I think. 90% cooperative, 10% conflict. This can apply to BDSM play too because that always (should) be cooperative between both people’s limits. Maybe it’s better to phrase it as 100% cooperative but ALSO 10% adversarial. Any more than that and it’s getting into hate fucking but any less and its just not as engaging.

  • tocopherol [any]@hexbear.net
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    I’ve been on the full revolutionary/self-improvement montage for the last several years and haven’t kissed in ages, I’m trying to get back into it, what are the latest smooching trends? I don’t want to look like a loser doggirl-sweat I don’t think I bite though, I’m in Amerikkka but I don’t identify as Amerikkkan

  • whiskers165 [she/her, she/her]@hexbear.net
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    American, I bite hard and often. Often I will wear gold fang caps on my canines, I love pushing the sharp tips into a lovers neck.

    Did not realize this was because I am American lol