I feel you. I’m the first MFer in my family without a college degree and I’m a nonpassing trans person. I’ve been laughed out of so many job interviews I quit trying. 100% scheme fueled existence, creative approaches to meeting my needs. Idk what to tell you, this shit will have you pulling out your hair and rethinking everything right down to how you eat and breath

In 13 year vet of Grindr, I consider myself a power user, more hookups, hang outs, and friends made than I can count.

You got have more discriminating taste number one. You gotta be mad when these guys reveal that they are losers. Open door policy and roommates watching TV? He’s a bitch boy who isn’t even in control of his own bedroom. You need to look on these people with disgust. Carplay is a similar red flag.

Once you figured out somebody is disingenuous, a loser, or otherwise skeevy you have to block them. Don’t engage, call them names, try to talk them into something else, argue, anything, just block and move on.

Grindr is a fucked up meat market, you either fuck or get fucked, play or get played. If you’re into hookups you gotta stay one step ahead of these fucks because they will take advantage of you and leave you feeling shitty. you gotta have strict boundaries and standards and you have to bounce people the second they don’t live up to your expectations. Instead of feeling horrible about being mistreated you will have blocked the problematic people and you will have more time to pursue the ones who are actually worth it

There’s plenty of great sex to be had on Grindr but you won’t get to have any of it if you let losers fuck you over in the rain. Only you can make the determination that you deserve better than that

This is the War on Terror for the western hemisphere. They want to create something like what the Authorization for Use of Military Force does for military intervention on the Middle East and Africa but for the Latin America.

Dang for me I feel like weed isn’t working until I start getting a little paranoid. Like I should be having a low grade anxiety attack in the background or I’ll feel like the weed wasn’t shit. I get off on nails-on-chalkboard real abrasive feelings but to each their own.

While it did help a little weed didn’t cure my depression but it start me down the path of doing other drugs that did (MDMA, LSD, DMT). From 23 to 30 I repeatedly blasted my brains with psychedelics and went on longer stimulant benders. I wish I could tell you there was some kind of model for this thing but its a crap shoot as far as I can tell, your results may vary

For me I started as very insecure and socially anxious. The drugs lowered my inhibitions and I learned to be more socially savvy, it unblocked everything that was making me bad at people stuff, being bad at navigating social situations and relationships was making my material reality poor, poor material reality making me depressed.

Once I got over my insecurities and got my social confidence up i was easily able to network/navigate to friendlier shores, this cascade of improving myself improves my situation improves myself improves my situation etc etc.

At least taking your coworkers advice to smoke weed shows you’re trying to do something about your depression. There’s lots of MFers who won’t try anything new to get out of their depression, if you’re trying new things and taking advice I think you’re gonna make it eventually

I couldnt even pass the physical fitness test, much less the drug test

I got three 2012 MacBook Pros I run different operating systems on. They handle Linux great, even the little 13" one with the i5 and no GPU/dedicated VRAM

I was gonna say this is very much Israel’s 9/11

Find me anyone living next to a giant gas station that doesn’t think it sucks

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Travelers grindset with a tourists budget is my sweet spot for a trip

I wanna pull my eyes out listening to any of my international tourist friends talk about their trips, like I could show you how to have more fun lighting that money on fire visiting a small no name city one state over but you would rather burn it hanging out in over priced tourists traps in the most Americanized partition of wherever you’re visiting

When I was a kid I grew up near some golf course. One winter I tore that shit up a couple times a week. Id tag shit like, “FUCK GOLF” and draw a hairy dong under it

I live walking distance to the best queer bar in the south, you can find me there many nights after midnight. Plenty of clubs, dancing, house music. I just be roaming the night looking for pretty lights and thumping music. Perks of living in a major city

How is this hacker not facing criminal charges if he’s openly stealing and releasing private information from a University?

I think I’m remembering one episode from the original Colbert Report, must’ve been like fifteen years ago, where he had Henry Kissinger on and had nothing negative to say, they were just paling around

Al Gore would have invaded Iraq

Try Grindr? Truly the best social media. I’m not even joking, I’ve been able to make genuine friends and hang out with cool people randomly. Location grid social media ftw

Maybe it’s occupational? Like where he lives or works has toxins or allergens that he’s specifically allergic to, the sickness leaves him so close to the edge making it hard to breathe, fucking with his insides, so much pressure that he’s a millimeter from flying off the handle at any moment?

Usual culprit is mold but it could be heavy metals or sewer gas or something from work.

My wife and I lived in a mold house and it was literally just fits of depression and then fits of rage. We physically fought on a couple of occasions which is very out of character for both us. Since moving the depression went way down and the rage completely disappeared.

I mean it’s most likely mental illness or a personality disorder, but it he lives in an old house not well maintained house with a leaky roof or rotting siding or something might be worth considering

EDIT: I’ll also add that my wife is schizophrenic and living in mold definitely turned the dial on her symptoms up to 11. Shit had us going crazy thinking a ghost was haunting us. If you had never met us before or seen us after the mold house you would 100% think we were severely mentally and psychotic

El Loco 4 Cactus Kid

Wtf

Dirty =/= stinky

Omg

Over time my response became, “then I’m going to make life unfair in my favor.” And I did.