Not an even an incel thing, this guy’s had sex, has had a long term girlfriend previously, but for some reason just doesn’t come to meetups with women there any more and even makes an excuse to leave if a woman he doesn’t know well arrives unexpectedly
I have mostly female friends and live with my wife and her mom. Only direct family I have is my sister, mom, and grandmother. So I’m basically always in the presence of women. I have a few guy friends who aren’t creeps, but it’s just kinda exhausting hanging out with most others.
I’ve found that at least some of the younger married ones are better, but it’s still 50/50 on them flipping when it’s just the two of us lol.