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sometimes dysphoric about face idk but sometimes not
8 days and im roungly a year on HRT

  • kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 hours ago

    from this angle yeah!!

    really the only thing i was thinking when looking at your photos was “oh my god she looks so pretty in that shirt i have to ask”, so…

    where did you find that shirt?

  • Sophienomenal@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 hours ago

    I’d say you pass better than I do on a year of HRT (and a ton of makeup)! I’ve been told my face looks mostly androgynous, and I’m honestly unable to see it as feminine most times, but yours definitely looks feminine! Also, please do understand that even cis women can have trouble passing. Passing feels nice, and I know a lot of us want it, but it should never discourage you from being yourself. Passing should not be the “end goal” of transition, because honestly, not everyone will be able to achieve it with their unique situation. And not passing does not make you any less of a(n) [insert gender identity here].

    That being said, even with my trans spidey senses (bc let’s be honest, most cis people are pretty clueless and less likely to notice), I probably wouldn’t think anything of it unless there was some other reason I’ve picked up on besides looks. I know cis women who pass less than you lol

    P.S. Could I send a picture of myself in DMs and ask the same thing?

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      58 minutes ago

      P.S. Could I send a picture of myself in DMs and ask the same thing?

      yes

  • dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    11 hours ago

    In general yes, though most of your photos are from the same angle which makes it hard to actually tell.

    The last photo is clocky imo (probably from the way the shadows lay on your face?) - but still androgynous boy at worst (more ambiguous than obviously male, if that makes sense).

    The other photos lean more fem for me - if I try to see a boy I can sorta make my brain do that, but what I see by default is a girl (maybe partially because the t-shirt primes me to see that, but your skin is also soft, there’s no beard shadow, etc.).

    (Take this all with a grain of salt, not everyone will be able to see you like I can - I also have the brainworms. Just like for you, gender dysphoria warps my perception of myself and others.)

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      some other, also cool i doesnt have adam apple also as full body - i definitly pass ~162 cm and overall body is ok also i never grew facial hair(even no body hair at all) (how hard it was been to get hrt at 15 and convert transphobic mom to normal)

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    First of all, mad props to you for having the courage to upload your face to the internet! I would be way to scared to do that!

    To answer your question, I think most people would assume you’re a a butch woman when they look at you, yeah :3

    Do your experiences confirm this? When you go into a shop for example, what honorific do people use for you?

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      17 hours ago

      First of all, mad props to you for having the courage to upload your face to the internet! I would be way to scared to do that!

      better than posting anything on russian VK, or even any capitalist western social network because roscomnadzor doesnt know anything about small fedi instances

      Do your experiences confirm this? When you go into a shop for example, what honorific do people use for you?

      they not gendering me at all (im inst very social)
      only ~twice in this year i remember i was called a boy but after that hrt do things
      more often girl
      child always call be girl
      i rememder PRE HRT at awful state a 7yr was thinked im girl also 9-10yr was ask me im boy or girl also pre hrt and moreeeee

    • erin@quokk.auOP
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      17 hours ago

      thank you!!

      HOW TO GET RID OF BRAINWORMS??? okay im started working with good psychotherapist so patience

      my biggest brainworm is dating 3 years ago when i was very dysphoric egg craking and music teacher said BOYS VOICE BREAKS AT PUBERTY GROWS THROAT , VOICE CORDS AND GROOWS (!)JAW(!)

      after that im dysphoric about my jaw at some ANGLES that its grow on testoshitrone but on photos its seems like ± SAME than PRE puberty

      so is 110℅ brain worm from trauma

  • Im_old@lemmy.world
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    17 hours ago

    I would say yes. Letting your hair grow a little more would help maybe. Hope all the best to you!