Just checking in with others, making sure everyone’s good and happy, or if anyone needs any help with anything.

Rewiring myself to be more outgoing, and accepting of everyone so why not start with Ottawa.

  • Bluegrass_Addict@lemmy.caOP
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    2 days ago

    sorry you have to go through a breakup /divorce. They can for sure be extremely difficult mentally and physically for sure. I went though one at the ripe age of 23… I’ve done it all it feels, just very early.

    on the plus side, it’s time for self growth, openmindness and life re-establishment. So many good things will be on the horizon for you and you don’t even realize them yet. There is no better time to then now to focus on yourself, improve and learn who you are and who you want to continue being. Ive recently discovered Stoic Philosophy and a few rules might help you in your redevelopment.

    Rule 2: Only focus on what’s in your control

    Rule 3: Don’t suffer imagined troubles

    as for music, what’s your preferred genre? quickly looking at your history (sorry for being intrusive), you give me 90s/00s punk vibes. NOFX, rancid, Propagandhi and I can only guess hangouts at the the Dom downtown lol.

    I’ve recently gotten into bluegrass, Doc Watson, Tony rice, Merle Watson, and most notably Billy strings. He triggered it with his rock/metal/bluegrass hybrid style for sure, but previously it was almost exclusively punk/ska bands, heavy rock and metal. I would highly recommend checking out Tinfoil and Turmoil too see the hybrid bluegrass rock/metal Billy strings did. So good, I would love to see him live but he’s only gone to Vancouver I believe.

    I have been checking out the Red Bird venue on bank since they do bluegrass Wednesdays. Not too many venues in Ottawa focus on bluegrass.

    I hope you get everything sorted, find happiness and get to see lots of good shows in the upcoming months/years. If youre ever feeling down, overwhelmed or just need to vent, hit me up. I’ll provide whatever assistance I can, or even buy you a beer at a bar over some live music. (this is my personal restructuring that I’ve been undertaking…)

    • Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works
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      2 days ago

      Thanks man, I appreciate this :) Yep, might be tough now but I know there’s better things on the horizon. Really about rediscovering who I am, after a lot of time being focused on other people. That and it could always be worse - no one is at anyone’s throat, in the interest of an easier time with it, thank god.

      Preferred genres - oh boy :). I do like 90s/00s punk, also a big fan of stoner metal, psych rock, prog, rockabilly, surf, funk, jazz, old school country, hip-hop (though not super deep into the hip-hop scene here), some electronica-adjacent stuff - basically, I’m willing to listen to most anything once. You’re half right - if I’m out at a gig, more likely than not I’m either at the Dom or House of Targ (the latter slightly more often).

      If you’re into bluegrass Red Bird is obviously the best choice, but keep an eye on the show calendar for Irene’s, Rainbow, and Atomic Rooster as well (in that order). We’ve also got a pretty cool neo-bluegrass and adjacent festival in the valley - Black and Bluegrass. Haven’t been myself but have enjoyed some of the musicians that have gone there at other shows.

      Appreciate the well wishes. May take you up on the venting and beer at some stage, otherwise if you see a kind of out-of-place looking dude with a toque/hat, big beard and (more often than not) House of Targ hoodie at a show, there’s a decent chance it’s me - come say hi :) Even if it’s not, that’s a good segway into making small talk with someone else, lol.