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Cake day: February 6th, 2025

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  • Yes. I had a buddy who started taking it to ween away from his alcoholic tendency to enjoy a 5th of whiskey every night, and he quickly became addicted.

    He told me the withdrawals felt worse than what he was dealing with from the alcohol (though he was getting hit with both), ended up losing his job and spiraling into a recluse who spent all his time in bed or doing kratom. He eventually got help and got better.

    There’s this idea that its a “safe” drug, and posts encouraging its use in threads like these as some sort of alternative to getting drunk don’t help that perception. Its very addictive and the withdrawal symptoms suck just as much if not more than with booze, although I don’t think you can die from Kratom withdrawal the way you can from alcohol. Someone fact check me on that.

    Edit: What makes it dangerous is how quickly you can become physically dependent on Kratom.





  • It’s super cool when they decide to build these fucking things in water scarce actual deserts in the Southwestern US. I’m aware of a handful of these projects currently being proposed - and the one nearest to where I live is being proposed to use “reclaimed waste water”…after the initial 3-4 years after the data center is up and running. They need time to build the reclaimed water infrastructure you see, and they can’t just leave the data center turned off until then. No, they need 3-4 years of scarce drinking water so they can be up and running generating a profit, and then in half a decade to a decade they’ll totally get that reclaimed waste water infrastructure in place to make sure it runs 100% on stinky water.

    This totally wont be a rug pull or anything. There’s no way these massive silicone valley companies would do something like that!


  • Valheim is great! I recently started playing with my partner and we’ve been having tons of fun.

    The sense of progression is great. Simple skeletons were giving us so much trouble when we first started, now after about 40 hours we’re competently making our way through dragur swamps to grab some scrap iron, while dodging abominations. I don’t feel “good” at the game yet and it’s been cool learning how to play without feeling the need to look anything up on wikis.


  • I missed out on playing Gothic during its time, but I did play Risen and really liked it. I’m hoping that the Gothic Remake will be decent enough to enjoy so I can finally see what the hypes about with that franchise. I’ve wanted to try Gothic, but ive heard it’s janky, and without the nostalgia of playing it previously, I just feel too old and tired to deal with that kind of jank now.




  • I have a different interpretation of what the game was about, so my take away is very different, but I see your perspective and think its a good take.

    Title

    The game is about grief, and more specifically about dealing with/processing grief. The game kinda beats you over the head with it after the fake out narrative of the “Expedition” in Act 1.

    Your party members, the NPCs, the fantastical creations of the painters, all don’t exist - they aren’t real. They’re all just set dressing for this awful canvas-grief-capsul of escapism that the Dessendre family created and have been languishing inside of for 67 years.

    Each of the family members is dealing with the death of Verso in a unique, but still bad, way. The Mother locks herself into the memories of the past, disregarding her surviving family members and letting her corporal form waste away, and wallows in the sadness of her memories of Verso in the one place she still feels a connection to her dead son.

    The Father originally entered the canvas to “free” his wife, but ends up crushed under the weight of the Mother’s grief and is literally imprisoned beneath the Monoliths that has become a physical manifestation of the mothers grief. Instead of doing the hard part of helping his wife deal with her grief, he falls into a similar pattern of complanceny in maintaining his grief rather than addressing it. (Painting to bring order to the chaos in his life. “The one thing he can control”)

    The older sister, Clea, throws herself into her work of dealing with “The War” rather than addressing her grief, and as a consequence leaves the rest of her family to fend for themselves.

    The younger sister, Alicent/Maell, clearly feels intense guilt for causing the fire that killed Verso. She’s scarred physically and emotionally, and entered the canvas to save her parents but got confused and became a baby who forgot everything and had to grow up again? (Honestly this part of the narrative really confused me.) She forms bonds with the almagamation of her dead brother and father (Gustave) and other Expeditioners which complicates things when she finally realizes what’s going on, but instead of actually dealing with her grief and confronting the reality of the situation and everything she’s gone through throughout the course of the game, she wants to basically stay in the Matrix and have a chance at living her “good life” in comfort.

    That’s why the Maell ending is portrayed how it is. You’re ignoring everything you’ve learned from the family members you’ve been trying to save to basically go “Living in a delusional fantasy while my family wastes away as grief husks is super rad actually.” Verso by contrast actually wants things to be resolved. He’s been living as a weird grief golem for nearly a hundred years, he’s watched every member of this family trap themselves in this delusion and no longer wants to be apart of it.

    It’s very metaphorical and junk.

    I loved the game and thought it was very well done. Seriously one of the best I’ve played in a long time.


  • Frozen veggies are kinda underrated for convenience and you can never go wrong with any of the many variations of beans and rice. Dry beans are cheaper, but you do need to remember to soak them the night before which I frequently don’t. Canned beans are also solid.

    If you consume meat its always best to buy it as whole as possible and process the cuts yourself. It’s not as difficult as you would think, but it does need to be learned.

    I always keep some tofu in the fridge (buy it at Asian markets for the price) because its always hella easy to chop some up, toss some spices and oil on it, and toss it in the air fryer for about 20 minutes for a easy versatile protein addition to whatever I’m making.




  • I’m not big on turn based JRPG styled games, FFX is the best Final Fantasy if that gives you any indication of how I feel about the genre, but this game really managed to hook me after you leave Lumiere.

    I’m a big fan of the surreal environments and how aggressively French this game is. The game has STYLE and I find it very refreshing in a new and interesting way.

    The story is engaging and pretty great so far. I’ve been finding the world interesting enough that I go out of my way to find side content that expands on the world more.

    The combat really opens up by the time you get to the Gestural Village early in act 1. Or at least thats when it finally started to click for me. Figuring out how to synergize your party members with each other and playing off of their set ups is satisfying. The dodge and parry system took a little bit for me to get acclimated, and I found it very achievable but not necessarily easy.

    I think I’ve been enjoying it as much as I have been mostly because its so different from what I normally play.