• Tonava@sopuli.xyz
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    3 hours ago

    As an enby I have no fucking idea how to be gay. By liking men and women??? But then liking enbies just can’t be straight, can it? What a conundrum. Good thing I’m aroace so I can just opt out

    • DaPorkchop_ [any]@lemmy.ml
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      2 hours ago

      No matter who you pick, any relationship you’re in would be at least a little bit gay. Alternatively, you can test hypothetical relationships for gayness using this model.

      Being aroace makes it a lot easier - if you’re never in a relationship, you are therefore never in a straight relationship, and therefore you are always gay. QED and all that.

    • samus12345@sh.itjust.works
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      3 hours ago

      Being gay is liking the same gender that you are, so liking other enbies would be gay in your case, I suppose.

      • Tonava@sopuli.xyz
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        3 hours ago

        I was trying to be funny but that’d probably be technically correct, yes