Hello everyone!

I just recently came out to my partner as possibly (probably) trans. Everything has gone well and they and our closest friends are very supporting and caring. I couldnt really have had a better opening up I feel like.

Now, I feel like this has been a long time coming. I have never really felt comfortable with who I was ever since I was 12-13, I am 26 now. I have never had the space, surroundings or environment to explore or talk about this until now so I’ve had a lot of time to think and feel.

I am pretty sure I am trans but Im still not a hundred percent. I know she/her pronouns resonate well with me and I feel very good when wearing feminine clothes and showing a more feminine side that otherwise has been repressed. My partner helped me order some clothes the other day and I am very hyped to try those out.

Theres alot to think about and things I want to try and do, but I wanted to ask you all. What are your experiences, lessons or tips from your journeys? Is there anything I or maybe others in my situation could learn from?

Happy to hear anything and everything you want to share ❤️

  • gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    29 天前

    The most important thing is to move forward when there’s moving forward to do and be patient when there isn’t.

    tbf that’s the most important advice in any situation.

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      29 天前

      True, but especially in situations where moving forward is scary and feels like everything will change immediately when you do, but then you have to wait a long time for it to happen.