• FluidBeef@quokk.au
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    7 hours ago

    Why do men do this? Even when I was young and clueless I knew this would not work, and that also women talk to each other.

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      The goal isn’t what you assume it is. You’re projecting your own goals and concerns onto those men.

      My guess would be exhibitionism. They get sexual gratification from acting sexually towards women regardless of how those women feel about it. As for women talking to each other, that’s less of a risk on dating apps, and even irl it has never been decent at preventing sexual offenders from having plenty of victims.

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        I asked my man slut roommate (no shame, all sluts rock, all kind people rock) a while back, how he gets all these girls with this behavior?

        He said, “I just cast a wiiiiide net and the ones that respond are down”

        Beautiful and simple explanation. Just like he was, to clarify, above average beauty, and =< average smarts. Pretty good guy overall. I don’t recall he was a dick to rejection just moved along to the one that accepted.

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      I too wonder this sometimes. Than I realize a lot of men are clueless in general about the opposite sex.

      I think the motivation of a lot of people like this is to just have meaningless sex. Someone is not flashing their dick to a future spouse. Not many stories I have heard where it goes “Once I saw that dick pic, I knew your father was the one.”

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        Not many stories I have heard where it goes “Once I saw that dick pic, I knew your father was the one.”

        Romance is dead.

  • TheTechnician27@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    submitting your wrinkly ball sac to a stranger on the Internet

    She designs bioreactors and doesn’t even want to see mine for reference smdh

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    Mean if you’re so smart then don’t open the app or their messages? Don’t download images in dms at the very least. lmfao

  • Smuuthbrane@sh.itjust.works
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    2 hours ago

    Your response should be “it appears you neglect application of saponification products during hygiene”. With a “🤢” for added punctuation.