• arnitbier@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Boys not able to be raised well

    They’re all broken out there, you helping or just doing holier then thou shtuff for fun?

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      1 day ago

      I have a real issue with you adding not able to be raised well. As a father of a boy. Let me tell you it’s absolutely the parents. You can raise boys well.

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        7 hours ago

        And if you are the only person in the world that would be enough, but selfish assholes like you are why the world is so broken cause its not and never will be

        Assuming what youre doing is enough cause in your little emotional ass world it is (according to you, the world disagrees but to you other people don’t even exist based on your “logic”)

        The rest of people are fucked up and your doing exactly nothing to change it and your guilty ass conscience brought you to the comment section to pretend your above everyone to feed the need to be better without actual reality to back you up

        Fuck your shitclown attempt at playing for a crowd here dude instead of any kind of nuanced understanding of the issues

        Edit: Good luck when their friend/girlfriend/coworkers/whoever the fuck influencers, grifters, do badders get them all fucked up cause they get better at manipulating them then you do a job of raising them so-called ‘right’, or they’ll just isolate away from others the same cowardly way and the world will stay perpetually fucked up cause you arent gonna be who they need you to be to help fix them, so you come on here and state the obvious, to applause you know is coming, instead of actually doing the hard work to be done.

        Time to reach out (read: engage with in any way, shame, witness, intend to understand and help. Not just sit and pretend that your winning some game) but reach out to the quote unquote, ‘bad’ parents, even if its “unsafe” or “hazardous” or not good for your “mental state” cause they also got left behind by their last generation, now you would actually be doing something about it rather than cowering behind the indulgences of self appreciation all about you by not directly being an ‘actively participating’ part of the problem and instead just indirectly by fucking off from the cause. Lucky you then cause that’s all luck and no real work on your part other then maintaining or growing what is already easy for you to handle, understand and witness. You probably had life on easy street. Its not like that for them and they know that shit.

        Deal with the problem directly to self aggrandize this much, on purpose, to get some self validation for something you already know is right and should be enough just to do it, cause doing that shit actually needs that help and justifies itself.

        The actual problem is, that you don’t know how easy it is to be like them given their chemical norms, their witnessing and THEIR experiences. Its so simple to believe that macho shit from birth(its “natural” and thus justified in some way (if you never learned critical thinking skills by being born “right”), violence is the underpinning to all ownership and that makes you stronger and more able to protect yours, it works so fucking well and is entirely justified sometimes no matter your personal philosophy, its so powerful and it makes others feel more powerful/secure by proximity to it, and you seem pretty dumb to people like them for not all “getting that” by ‘instinct’ alone. Feeds right into the nature thing, see how easy it is to do (now imagine its crazy liberating and empowering all thoughout inside your brainspace) (‘Instinct’: read: built in, innate. Cause there are plenty of advantages to being prepped for violence, pray you never have to need it and not have it type idea))

        So deal with it or get out of the way/get fucked up by its not having being dealt with by stronger men and women. Spent time and effort here today you would be likely ill equipped to handle. So thesis is that toxicity is not an inherent wrong or a truely “bad thing”, it depends how and why, where its directed and why its being used at all, you might see this as toxic, but you need it or something like it (to get through your superiority complex bulit right in to your self esteem) its healthy to your “body” at this time (that its not right about something and this is how to get the info understood/digested)

        Welcome to the toxic paradox mfers 😎👍