Every single post with a woman immediately results in a 50 long comment thread of gooners going “lol I’m jorkin muh penus”

And now they have gifs

I am grateful for this sites strict no horny posting policy

    • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      It’s a power thing, a ‘social order’ thing. Like, do you remember how white Americans who agreed with everything he was doing got so fucking butthurt about Obama?

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      I hate sex scenes in this movie for this reason. If I WANTED to see that, there is an infinite supply of higher quality content, that’s a billion times more likely to pander to whatever sick disgusting thing I’m jillinterested in that week, and it’s probably free. In fact, sometimes I’m posting bait of my interests on of and guys pay to DM me, usually ignoring the bait and asking about random shit like feet/vore, but I still get paid.

      But in the movie world you get the blandest shit possible and if you’re lucky the most mature person watching with you is going “giggitygiggity” or w/e.

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        Sex scenes are like action scenes: usually shallow pointless and totally devoid of meaning.

        But they can be done well, can be part of the plot, can be beautiful and meaningful. American directors just usually don’t bother.

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          I don’t think I’ve ever seen a sex scene and went “yes this is necessary for the plot”.

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            ‘Lovecraft country’, the one with the shape shifting couple.

            Edit: after you watch that you will hate the way sex scenes are usually used so fucking much more.

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            I mean that’s already an odd way to look at it. Like when you watch a movie do you go “I’m sure they could have told this story without all those action scenes”? Sex scenes can tell us about characters and their relationship to one another, it can tell us how a character is feeling and it can be a great way to set the mood for a scene.

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              I do in fact do that.

              Most action scenes, sex or violence, are pointless and convey nothing. It’s really fucking frustrating, because it could, you could fit so much characterization so much perspective. And they just never fucking do.

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      I think it has to do with the fact that we’re all very alienated and don’t see each other as human beings. So if someone gets in the habit of scrolling adult websites and commenting on bodies there’s no reason why they wouldn’t do it elsewhere. People have to find some kind of rituals to replace the bonding we’ve lost. I’m sure there’s multiple reasons, but this one came to mind rn.

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        There’s also a bit of hierarchalism to it. Youll notice queers do it less, women don’t do it as much about men. Big part of colonial cultures.

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      It’s a social ritual that weeds out those who will not tolerate a certain level of misogyny, and to teach those new to the community the level of misogyny that they’re expected to adopt.