Okay but consider that if you read things phonetically and you know it’s in a language with grammar conventions that are entirely foreign to you and that you know you will fuck up

in contexts like this “I’m not even going to try here” is a sort of coping mechanism because you already know that whatever you attempt is going to be an embarrassing mash up of whatever it was supposed to sound like

I don’t know if I would shame people for social coping mechanisms

but also it depends on how they say it, I guess, and with what intent