cruelty squad dialog

[paraphrasing] “people with non-cisheteronormative identities should not bring up their identities to people because it’s confusing”

i’m just curious 😭

what’s the source for the image?

makes me wonder about server infrastructure implications too. are companies that use dozens or hundreds of servers for large-scale services gonna have to submit an id to each of them…??? who’s id?

there’s so little thought that goes into the enforcement of this

your bill comes directly out of your server’s paycheck. genius capitalist innovation

everything in the quoted paragraph angers me way more than it should

this article by transfem science has stuff on the timeline of hrt effects, as well as reversibility, in compact and digestable charts (which you might have to scroll past a bunch of text to find).

i’ve seen a few old interviews of elderly and middle-aged trans and enby folks. you can probably find them on youtube. from what i remember, they still consider their gender a significant part of their identity.

passing is subjective but i think it’s easier than most people say. it involves a lot of effort (because being a woman demands work in a patriarchy), but a timeline of 1-2 years like you said, is reasonable. most hrt-taking trans people i know start passing as their gender within that time or less.

good luck on your journey :)

you should still read theory

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GOOD post.

new b12 intake method just dropped

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