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Cake day: 2023年6月25日

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  • your response lends me to believe that you think i have mis-assessed your intentions (“doesn’t stop at” “goes well beyond”).

    i have understood. i am telling you that i have been through all of it (25 years your senior), including the negative judgments from friends and family. and while i have certainly had some (few and far between) successes, i caution you that you will not find what you are looking for. and you may be risking more than you think.

    good luck.


  • for much of my life, i have had a similar approach as yours. i have used many of the substances in this list and also many that you have not listed.

    overall, i would say that the legal stuff is legal because it sucks. legal drugs are usually a shitty high, or difficult to consume properly, or of dubious benefit… simply not worth the expense nor the effort… nor the social isolation, nor the heartache.

    i am not defending your friends’ perspective. but i don’t think you will find what you are looking for (i certainly didn’t).





  • i feel this so much.

    i have a referral on the table to begin sessions with a new therapist and have been putting off making the appointment because of the tedium of “getting it all out there” only to find out months from now that (for whatever reason) it was a wasted effort.

    i honestly don’t know what progress would look like. does it make sense for me to get my expectations in order before making the appointment?.. or should i just jump in?