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Cake day: August 26th, 2023

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  • NTA/At least don’t sound like the asshole from what you’ve shared. As always, nr 1 advice is “don’t take advice from the internet or people who don’t truly know your situation”.

    That being said, I believe relationships are about mutual respect and even adoration, which it sounds like might not abound in your relationship. I’d say his reaction to your asking for more affection is a red flag, that being said maybe there’s a chance he was getting defensive or may have misunderstood your point which might mean you can overcome it together. In my experience these types of discussions have to take place in a safe space where mutual respect has been established, like first talking earnestly about how you feel about each other and then proceeding to how you can make each other even happier.

    But yeah, nobody here knows your situation well enough to render judgement, as always, barring you two establishing a healthy method of communication around these things, seeking professional help should be the only real consideration.











  • Wow, chill, I stated how it’s not in line with the community. Just thought it was worth the mention as I quite like it, it’s got plenty of UX and features I would love to see in a FOS offering but just haven’t!

    I’m part of the community even though I’m not a zealot, in this specific instance I’m very consciously sacrificing a bit of privacy for what I consider a better UX.

    My thinking was that best case someone more in the know would point out an app that’s just as good or better and offers the lacking privacy…