Criticism of the CCP alone is not racist, reporting it as racism is report abuse.

Thanks, it wasn’t easy, but I did it eventually 🏳️‍⚧️

I chose lemmy.blahaj.zone since most of the communities I participate in are there and they have been nothing but kind to me. I highly recommend it for other queer people who want to have a peaceful community free of transphobia.

This you?

I think they were talking about people like that, people like you.

lemmy.blahaj.zone is good, I just moved there. I’ve participated in their communities and they’ve been nothing but nice to me.

I’ll begrudgingly put the dress on but I’m not tucking my girldick. I never tuck and I don’t ever want to.

(I’d really rather not do either, I’m a tomboy and I prefer to dress in masc clothing, but I’m more open to wearing fem clothes than I am to tucking.)

I’m doing pretty good. I found a new therapist and I’ve been seeing her, though I’m not 100% sure yet if I trust her. She is trans too though so that’s a good sign I guess. Also I’ve been feeling a lot more calm lately, I’m not sure if it’s because of HRT or things going well but it’s nice.

It’s not gay if they are a woman (many trans women have dicks) and you are a man. It is by definition straight.

However if a trans woman and a cis woman decided to do it together it would be gay (I should know, I’m a trans lesbian).

(b) implied they take it up the ass.

FYI That doesn’t mean they aren’t straight, there are trans women who have the ability and are comfortable doing that, and if a femboy and a trans women are in a relationship like that, it’s straight.

Say what you want about Cisco, but their hold music slaps

https://youtu.be/nLpm4aysr8I

How does my home instance lemm.ee fare? Are they a good one?

Makes sense to me, AMAB these days has little to do with maleness, it just describes if someone was born with a dick and balls, that’s how they decide “It’s a boy” when the baby is born anyway, even though they might be dead wrong 🏳️‍⚧️

That’s what I did as well, just because god or whatever higher power gave me a penis doesn’t make me any less of a woman.

I think it might have been partly because I said to her once that I wanted to try and reduce or prevent muscle loss on HRT and maybe she took that as me having second thoughts about getting HRT. Also she didn’t specifically say that girlmoding or commitment was required for HRT but that she found my lack of it concerning. I shouldn’t beat myself up too much for it though. She was trying to gatekeep me, I didn’t mess up by telling her that.

I was thinking that I would take HRT long enough for permanent changes to set in since one thing that I do worry about is muscle loss on HRT. Then I’d stop taking it and the blockers, probably gradually and let my body’s natural hormones take over again. I’m not sure how bad muscle loss on HRT is, I’ve heard some people say it’s not that bad but I’ve heard others say enthusiastically that it’ll “melt your muscles away like butter”. If it’s closer to the second I definitely plan to stop in the future.

Also yeah, I guess what I’m doing would be considered informed consent, not DIY. Im my defense I’ve heard many people call it DIY and I’m still very much a noob a this whole trans thing (only came out a few months ago and I learn new things everyday 😅).

Agreed, I’m not a fan of being stared at like that just because I’m trans and a tomboy. Happens often (especially since I’m still unfortunately pre-HRT, not for long though).

That seems shitty (also FYI trap is a nasty word). I’m not doing that at all. I try and be very clear that I’m a girl. A masculine girl who likes sports, cars, and getting dirty but a girl no less.

It means AMAB. Best way to remember is that trans terminology describes identities we identify with, or direction of transition. So trans women are women, and transfem (transfeminine) means feminine or feminizing.

As one of those trans girls who loves her dick, this would make me very sad.

Please don’t take away my girlcock 😭

I’m not forced to remain friends with any of them and I won’t I’m cutting each and every one of them off. If they can’t handle me being trans and being a girl now they can fuck right off.

Fuck you, I’m not waiting longer than I need to. I’m doing DIY if my therapist doesn’t write me the letter, I’m not finding another one and wasting more months talking about worthless feelings just so they can maybe write me a letter when I could’ve started DIY and began the journey already.