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I’m so sorry. It’s tricky for everyone, I suspect. Maybe more so for some.

I wish I had some expert tips, but I never had any luck myself, and eventually gave up. It just always hurt too much when everything was secure enough not to “pop out” on me. Which made leaving the house that way untenable as all heck: who wants to walk or drive with their groin aching from the deathgrip of pain holding them by their tender bits? :c

I hope you have more luck with the gaff. It’s something I never got around to exploring, as I figured for me it would be more of the same constant dull ache. I’m old enough not to worry too much what people think if they notice, which I know isn’t a solution for everyone.

Ew. Is that a text editor? (I use KDE and that kind of UI WTF would irritate the hell out of me enough to switch, too! I don’t use kate, though, if that’s what that is.)

Nice, I don’t know why, but I was picturing the pink car going fast enough to squeal their tires like they used to in the one nearest where I live. We only got roundabouts here a decade or two ago, so they’re still a novelty to most. I don’t drive much, as you can probably tell.

Glad to hear Brave isn’t awful. I haven’t tried it as I’m trying to avoid Chrome entirely for now.

I’ve been using IceRaven/Mull on a very old (out of support) LG phone, and I’m not sure I entirely understand the “pauses” thing? I don’t see meaningful pauses when I switch tabs, other than the page reloading if it was purged from RAM. But like. That happens in Safari on iOS on a brand new phone, too, so it’s not entirely an Android-specific complaint.

Honestly, all mobile browsers are UI train-wrecks of one kind or another. For me it was this exact process of elimination to decide which I like least, and then from there deciding which inflict the fewest paper cuts. For me, FF sync (settings mostly, but also tab sets) was more important than whatever memory problems Mozilla rebrands might have. :(

I don’t follow the rules only because I don’t drive at all. Otherwise, yes, you are correct, I don’t follow rules which endanger my life. Just weird that way.

I love how the meme assumes everyone trusts everyone else’s driving. Utopian ideals, man.

Indeed, I’m on Mbin, and I should’ve specified. I can definitely do textual feedback (matrix), I was just thinking GitHub or some other ticketing system was involved. (I can use them, too, not a big deal, I just don’t have a lot of energy, so. I try to use it constructively where I can. :)

PieFed API explosions: yiiiikes, that sounds really unfun for the time being!

I’d be willing, though I’m still on Android 12, and am not a terribly heavy user. Do you have any specific requirements you’re targeting? What kind of bug reports/tickets were you wanting to generate, if any?

Edit: ah, I see in another thread it’s probably “lemmy-only”, which counts me out. Bummer.

I’ve tried off and on, myriad types and duration for over a decade, not just for my ADHD, but because I’m a seriously anxious person with some complex-af PTSD. But also because doctors kept harping on me for not “doing enough mindfulness”.

I tried a minute a day for several months after three was too much, but only made it through 30 days before I had to stop even that.

This is especially true for people with PTSD/cPTSD/depression/AuADHD, but if meditation makes your mental health worse, don’t keep doing it. Seriously. Talk to someone about it.

For me, it makes everything worse. I feel like this is something people should know to watch out for, especially in the modern times of “mindfulness” being tossed around like it’s a positive for everyone. It isn’t. Some of us spend way too much time ruminating as it is, and need to spend more time working on how we think rather than how much.

A really good suggestion (which won’t have the desired result for everyone).

Personally, I find meditating makes my anxiety really bad. Like almost immediately. I wish I was joking, but I’m not, I’ve tried all kinds, guided, monaural, free-form…sitting with my thoughts is just really bad for my mental health, oddly.

Every therapist and GP I’ve mentioned this to has laughed and said, “yeah, that’s one thing they don’t tell you, meditation and self-care aren’t synonymous for everyone. For some it will make things much worse, especially if you try to force it. If that’s the case, don’t do it any more.”

For me, trying to combat the negative self-talk and bad thought patterns is so much more helpful than sitting down and forcing myself to be still when that’s the last thing my body and mind want to do.

;D

Oh yeah. I’m diagnosed with adhd and waiting is actually physically painful, which isn’t something most people understand, I guess?

browsing fedi in the workplace when one should be working is a wild reason to force people to cw things you don’t care for. all you’re doing is forcing people to always use content tags, even if they’re not posting anything remotely unsafe.

They just may be the future, but the header “Passkeys are one of the few security constructs that make your life easier, rather than harder”, unironically in an article this long explaining them… whew. Yeah, fun to use. /s

I’m not straight and have no idea what it sounds like. (Not what you asked, but my incredibly straight parents have no clue what Grindr even is, if that helps. :)