Close! He is a member of a “prestigious” (please imagine highly sarcastic air quotes) British acting family. He’s done his best to gatekeep acting from the poors. And since covid he’s been doing his best American alt-right impressions, running for political seats he doesn’t have a prayer to win, and losing a ton of money doing so.
He’s unfortunately also been in a few of my favorite shows :/
That actor is a shit head that calls queer men pedophiles, to the point that he’s been sued several times
I got your message, but I can’t seem to get the reply through.
Here’s what I wrote back:
I think you get to define that the way that fits best. Calling it gender euphoria can be understandable by a large audience. We called medical treatments “gender affirming” when they were still gate-kept for cis people. Breast reconstruction or testicle implants, laser hair removal, and hormones for elder individuals, for just a small list. But, let me challenge the idea in a different way. If a person loses a body part that is intrinsically linked to how they experience, or want to experience the world, what should we call it when they can get that function back? A cis man who has surgery to return function to his penis could feel gender euphoria. I actually know someone who had an adult circumcision who explained it that way. On the other hand, an amputee can experience euphoria when they’re able to hold their child again, or a hearing impaired child when they hear their mother’s voice for the first time. Plastic surgery often has the same effect.
For me, I feel dysphoric about the female parts of my body, despite the fact that I’m still fem presenting. And likely always will be. It’s my body that’s wrong, not my presentation. So, I think for me it is gender euphoria even tho I don’t have a gender in my head
Being trans isn’t just about surgeries.
Oh, for sure. I definitely am more comfortable with myself, my labels, and my preferences now. But when that egg first cracked, I felt like I wasn’t worthy of the label because of some criteria. That’s why I mentioned that there isn’t really a right way to be trans or enby, it’s often different from one person to the next
Absolutely, you can message me! I’m not sure how well messaging works between piefed and lemmy yet, but I have a lemmy account too, if this doesn’t work. I’m sorry it took so long for me to respond. I hope you got enough rest, it seemed like there was a lot to process through this whole post
Dr Girlfriend was a whole vibe. Almost a call back to the chainsmoking, husky-voiced actresses in vintage films
I know exactly what you mean about experiencing euphoria just from viewing the website!
I’m afab, but identify as agender. I have gone through many of the thoughts you’ve written here, especially if I’m even allowed to call myself trans when it’s not exactly feasible for me to get bottom surgery. I’m also aroace, in a similar way that you are
Have you considered trying testosterone? At a lower dose you can still get some bottom growth. You’ll also have some of the other changes like thicker body hair, and lowering of voice. I was on T for about four months and didn’t have any voice changes, but still had enough growth that I was content. I can go into more detail if you like, and there’s some toys out there (and functional prosthetics) that help alleviate some of the bottom dysphoria. There’s definitely no right way to be Trans or NB but it helps to have some anecdotal info when you’re feeling lost.
I had an ex proudly tell me that was his high school nickname. I’m ace, and somehow neither of us realized what the problem would be
My organic chemistry professor spent a solid 30 minutes explaining the difference between an em dash and an en dash so we could use them correctly in our lab reports. Then ended his little lecture with saying “They’re in the special character menu of your word processor. Unless you’re on Mac, then I suggest googling them.”
I don’t think any of us used either dash, but I’m just sad no one called him on his BS lol
I solved Six Appeal #474 in 3 minutes, 28 seconds.
Real words guessed: 4 × 100 = 400 Remaining guesses: 3 × 200 = 600 Time bonus: 92
Total score: 1092