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  • LukeZaz@beehaw.orgtoNeurodivergence@beehaw.orgI've seen it
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    6 days ago

    Accurate. I wish we had better terminology for this, though. I get tired of saying things like “executive dysfunction” because it’s a technical term that only means something to some people, and even then it’s vague. Other descriptions I’ve seen like the “really heavy door” analogy are better, but still don’t feel quite right for what I experience, and I have no idea how better to explain it.

    I’ve clued in to a few hints that feel a bit more accurate, such as noticing that I tend to get distracted extraordinarily easier when doing a task that isn’t outright fun, but that’s still not the whole picture. And not only is it frustrating not being able to explain the problem, but people tend not to take you seriously (or offer unhelpful advice) as a result. Maddening.




  • You bring up people fighting a war as a comparison, you invite the idea that you expect others to do the same, bullets and all. If you didn’t want to make that implication, you shouldn’t have made that comparison. This is on you.

    This goes double when the suggestions you’ve offered are so vague and unhelpful as “Organize. Disrupt. Disobey.” Do you have any concrete ideas for how that’ll work? Because right now, you’re just yelling at people in an entirely different country to you to do a bunch of Stuff™ all while you hypocritically whine online yourself about what we are doing.

    Again, if you want to be frustrated, do it differently. As it stands, you’re just fighting your own allies because the work they’re doing isn’t what you specifically want to occur. You’re going to have deal with the fact that sometimes activism isn’t flashy, and sometimes it isn’t easy to spot. That doesn’t mean it’s not useful, and it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Besides, even if you were right, shame doesn’t tend to be a useful tool for growing action; it just causes infighting and encourages spite and doomerism. So save the crit for the Democrat politicians, aye?



  • Your grandparents stormed the beaches at Normandy

    Oh, so what you actually want is for us to dash our bodies upon the stones and get shot to death by cops, is it? What a completely reasonable ask! One that I’m sure you won’t be doing yourself, of course. That’s our job.

    I’m not your footsoldier. I’m not throwing myself into a fire just because you’re unsatisfied with the action being taken. I have a life to live, and I’m barely managing that as it is. Your criticism is less than worthless.

    Your advice wouldn’t fix America. It’d just get us all killed. If you want to be frustrated, find a more productive way to do it.




  • It’s not because it was Joe doing it, though. They’re just fine with pretty much all of it, pretty much all of them.

    Well, yes. But that was rather my point. It’s not specific to Biden—the idea is that they’re all fine with it so long as their personal political capital benefits from agreeing with it, which it did, so long as a Democrat was in the White House. It’s two-faced. We agree on this.

    I mention Joe specifically because he was in office when this particular era of the genocide started, and so there was a lot of people (not just politicians, either) who were perfectly comfortable backing his support of human rights violations for over a year. Does it need him to happen? No. But he was there, and he made things worse, so he is who gets called out.

    On an optimistic note, however: I don’t remember specifically what article it was, but I do distinctly remember support for Israel has been dropping slowly over the last couple years, even before Trump started taking shits on everything. So not all the change in sentiment is temporary, thankfully.