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Cake day: October 22nd, 2023

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  • Just got back from a convention in a progressive city where I went out of town with no guy clothes at all. Full femme for 5 straight (gay?) days.
    So magical that I cried from joy several times. Had a harsh return to reality on the drive home realising that I didn’t feel safe getting out of the car at a coffee shop we stopped at in a rural area, so I had someone order my drink for me.
    Amazing experience overall, and gives me the confidence to keep trying to live an authentic life.













  • Kayday@lemmy.worldtoTransfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneWell... shit. What now?
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    4 months ago

    Advice about HRT: physical changes happen very slowly. Mental effects happen much quicker. You can start it and see if it helps you feel more comfortable (happened within days for me) and stop if it isn’t good for you.
    In the event that it is something you want, you will be happy that you started it earlier rather than later.

    Edit: to be clear when I say “very slowly” for physical changes, I mean months. Do what you need to do if being visibly trans isn’t feasible within the next year.