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Cake day: July 14th, 2023

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  • It’s not fraud if you tell the applicant what the rental criteria are and what happens to the money if they are turned down.

    In ancient times, I was a small time landlord. On a couple of occasions I asked for an application fee. I followed these rules, which I explained to the applicant:

    1. The application fee was refunded if I turned down the applicant, provided the background check did not disclose a lie on the application.
    2. The application fee was applied to the security deposit if I granted the rental.
    3. The application fee was not refunded if the background check found a lie on the application, or if I granted the rental and the applicant changed their mind and declined to rent.

    It costs money to do background checks. I wasn’t going to be out of pocket if an applicant was dishonest with me.













  • The writer of the article is treating child rearing as if it requires PhD level child psychology. It doesn’t.

    A child’s behavior is almost always ok if it is safe, non-destructive, legal, and NOT OFFENSIVE TO OTHER PEOPLE IN THE SAME SPACE. It doesn’t even matter if the other people’s idea of “offensive” seems reasonable or not. If their children are bothering others, a responsible parent will either curb their behavior or take them elsewhere.

    The writer apparently doesn’t understand that last part.