Individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), including those who otherwise require less support, face severe difficulties in everyday social interactions. Research in this area has primarily focused on identifying the cognitive and neurological differences that contribute to these social impairments, but social interaction by definition involves more than one person and social difficulties may arise not just from people with ASD themselves, but also from the perceptions, judgments, and social decisions made by those around them. Here, across three studies, we find that first impressions of individuals with ASD made from thin slices of real-world social behavior by typically-developing observers are not only far less favorable across a range of trait judgments compared to controls, but also are associated with reduced intentions to pursue social interaction. These patterns are remarkably robust, occur within seconds, do not change with increased exposure, and persist across both child and adult age groups. However, these biases disappear when impressions are based on conversational content lacking audio-visual cues, suggesting that style, not substance, drives negative impressions of ASD. Collectively, these findings advocate for a broader perspective of social difficulties in ASD that considers both the individual’s impairments and the biases of potential social partners.

The idea that autistic people can’t cause harm is very dangerous. Plenty of white supremacist autistic people out there. And double points they hide behind their autism when called out.
Abuse doesn’t care about your labels. Hurt people hurt people after all. It’s almost like human interaction is a very complicated nuanced topic. It’s why you always have to be in the pursuit of knowledge, perspective, and truth.
And I say this as somone who has someone in their life who, while has done better on this, still treats me differently because he won’t do any introspection.
Flip side. My wife isn’t autistic. But as we’ve learned about it, often helps me when I don’t even realize I’m having issues. And on top of that has used the things ive talked about in her social work to help autistic queer kids.