• latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    2 days ago

    Hmm, I wonder if it has something to do with muscle tension, maybe?:-? Your mentioning of relaxation clicked, maybe when we lay on our backs, our bladders/various sphincters relax and release?:-?

    I, for one, can say for certain I am tensed up for pretty much the duration of my episodes of consciousness…

    • flora_explora@beehaw.org
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      2 days ago

      Hm yes, I’m a very anxious person myself so that makes sense.

      My theory for why I have to pee so often (not only lying down) is also that it was a strategy for me to cope with a very controlling household growing up where my needs were frequently dismissed or ignored.

      • latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        9 hours ago

        Oh, that makes a lotta sense! Sorry to hear about your familial context, though:(

        Had a rough upbringing as well, anxiety and I are old friends by this point, but I developed the opposite - I pushed toward resilience, toward holding it in for as long as possible, precisely because I understood I couldn’t count on anyone around me.