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spujb@lemmy.cafe to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 13 天前

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spujb@lemmy.cafe to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 13 天前
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    I’m not like entirely opposed to bush, but being well groomed is often appealing.

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      yeah he always looked pretty well groomed to me

      • sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        13 天前

        Why did you share this picture of Adam Sandler?

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          He’s such a clown, look at him hamming it up

    • shawn1122@sh.itjust.works
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      The idea of being well groomed is somewhat arbitrary and culturally coded. In many cultures having a well maintained bush is seen as tasteful and shaving oneself bare is seen as prepubescent.

    • kofe@lemmy.world
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      I assume a bush can be groomed but I’ve yet to master the concept personally

      • DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml
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        13 天前

        i’ve heard bonsai is quite difficult

        • Hadriscus@jlai.lu
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          13 天前

          it’s the restraints that are hard to tie

      • BeeegScaaawyCripple@lemmy.world
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        12 天前

        it’s mostly to do with bathing and trimming hair

    • festnt@sh.itjust.works
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      11 天前

      as i’m a south american, i just don’t care about bush at all

  • HootinNHollerin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    13 天前

    Back in college some folks put up flyers all over for an anti-Bush rally. Counter-protesters showed up all pissed and were greeted with an anti-Bush the band prank protest.

  • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    13 天前

    but they’re not, they’re crustaceans

    • Impound4017@sh.itjust.works
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      13 天前

      Crustaceans is bugs, though, I mean just look at lobsters

      • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        13 天前

        no. bugs are a specific type of insect. Crustaceans are not insects.

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          Bugs is not limited to insects. Bugs is a vibe, not an actual taxonomical category.

          • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            13 天前

            yes it is

            Entomologists reserve the term bug for Hemiptera or Heteroptera, which does not include other arthropods or insects of other orders such as ants, bees, beetles, or butterflies.

            wikipedia

            • Impound4017@sh.itjust.works
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              Sure, if you’re talking about ‘true bugs’ (Hemiptera), but the difference from colloquial meaning is incredibly clear, and that Wikipedia page itself makes the case clear when it mentions that ladybugs are not true bugs (they’re beetles), but I would absolutely call beetles and ladybugs ‘bugs’ separate from the taxonomy. Perhaps it isn’t perfectly scientifically accurate, but humans don’t usually divide things into groups taxonomically for day to day usage, they divide them behaviorally, characteristically (see: fish).

              If it looks like a bug, behaves like a bug, and fills the ecological role of a bug, calling it a bug is plenty accurate for day to day use. And characteristically? Them’s bugs. Crayfish are called mud bugs for a reason.

              • somethingsnappy@lemmy.world
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                13 天前

                I like you, pedantic or not.

              • Klear@quokk.au
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                13 天前

                Here’s the thing…

              • hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                12 天前

                Exactly. Anything can be bugs. Isopods can be bugs. Shrimp can be bugs. Weird kittens can be bugs. Even you can be bugs.

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              Entomologists use it that way, but most people aren’t entomologists.

              • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                13 天前

                citation needed

                • kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                  According to graduate surveys 454 entomology degrees were awarded in 2023 in the USA, the most common type being a Masters. According to statista an estimated 4,200,000 people in the USA received higher education degrees in 2023, it is therefore reasonable to assume that roughly 99.99% of the USA already had an entomology degree.

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                  https://datausa.io/profile/cip/entomology https://www.statista.com/statistics/185153/degrees-in-higher-education-earned-in-the-united-states/

          • BeeegScaaawyCripple@lemmy.world
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            12 天前

            JUSTICE FOR CALVIN

    • spujb@lemmy.cafeOP
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      13 天前

      shrimps is bugs and they fried this rice

    • kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Well yes, but bugs are also crustaceans. You could argue it’d be more accurate to say bugs is shrimp.

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    Took me a second too ngl

    • Psythik@lemmy.world
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      13 天前

      Explain

      • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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        Bush: US president who send the US and allies to an 20+ year long war, resulting in countless warcrimes, death of the fantasy that the US are the good guys…

        Bush: Public hair.

        if you don’t like [pubic hair] you literally don’t deserve to fuck

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          Bush: Public hair.

          I sure hope your pubes aren’t public :)

          • JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            13 天前

            Not with that attitude

          • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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            13 天前

            I sure hope yours are ;)

          • GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca
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            13 天前

            Oftentimes, on men, they are, and they’re quite proud of them.

          • BeeegScaaawyCripple@lemmy.world
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            i got differing advice growing up statesian

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            Well I can confidently say not a lot of people have seen them so they are definitely not public 😎

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              I’ve actually never seen a woman without a bush. Although I’ve unfortunately seen a few trimmed (once or twice excessively) ones.

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            Aren’t there some sort of panties with a heart-shaped hole in the front? It would make it seem basically like in those toddler books where they learn to feel different animal furs

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          oh

      • Sunoc@sh.itjust.works
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        Bush the politician != pubic hair

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          13 天前

          [ref required]

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    I couldn’t even name one of their songs tbh

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      Got a machine head, it’s better than the rest, green to red.

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    Sixteen Stone rocks but I don’t know anything by them beyond that

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      Glycerine, Machinehead, and Everything Zen are all still pretty damn good for radio ready post grunge. Miles ahead of anything Creed or the other cleaned up post grunge bands were doing.

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        Machinehead

        It is better than the rest.

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          Green to red

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    I don’t like the structure of Instagram but my God the people on there have good jokes

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    Preferences vary! I personally prefer the gentleman provide all the body hair is the relationship

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    me_irl

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