My desire to leave has recently rapidly increased but I have a partner here and really close friends I want to be with as long as possible. I wish I could stay and establish roots but that was never an option given healthcare and the inevitably of the current downturn though I expected to have a lot more time before it got this bad tbh
My wife is a naturalized citizen, and we are currently trying to move her mom here. The timing is fucked, but so far we are continuing the process.