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My person like that died last year and I’m still not okay.
While it’s no consolation, how happy and fulfilled would they want you to be right now? What self-care can you practice to eventually reach that?
my heart aches for want of two things:
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that a hug could be meaningfully transmitted through the internet,
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that you would be willing to receive it.
… i doubt i’m capable of being That Person, but gods help me I want to be. I want to try. I hope i’ll get to…
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huuuuuuuug
This hits me right in the chest, I want this exact vibe. The tiny rituals, the secret champagne, the open chair, the cinnamon rolls promise, all of it feels like a home that actually makes people feel seen and safe. Pure cozy energy.
That said, loving idea, hard reality. Being everyone’s 24/7 comfort hub burns you out fast if you don’t set boundaries. Keep the welcome, keep the candy jar, but also keep a lock on some days and the right to say no. You can build this slowly, not overnight, and still have it mean something without getting exploited.
I have a friend who actually lives like that. Yes I tell her how much I appreciate her regularly
Is she looking for any new friends?
You FOOL! this is what everyone wants. you don’t have to inconvenience others to achieve this. socialism sucks. ava gardner was ugly.
